"Letters"
Homily of May 18, 2003
by Fr. Michael Dibble

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Today, Our Lord is talking about “Vine” and “branches.” I would like to talk to you about little branches, literally, lit-tle branches, little kids. (I haven’t inflicted this on you for four years. I think the first time I did this little branch thing was when I first arrived - Thank You, God! - in this parish in May of 1998. And, what I mean by “little branches,” I mean little kids.... little kids.

When I was in England (I saved up for a long time so I could spend ten days in England.) I was in the little town of Exeter, and I was in a Catholic bookstore, and I found a little book, called “Children’s Letters to God,” which became world-famous and there were a couple of editions. You’ve probably heard of it, read it. But I thought, in that little town of Exeter, “Wow! What a great gimmick!” because I taught English and Religion in high school and college. I thought kids who could use some extra credit in high school, high school seniors, when I get back an extra-credit project would be “Go to your parishes.” (This was Upstate New York.) “And get little kids to write a letter to God.” ...And I’ve acquired hundreds!.... Don’t panic! I just have a few up here. And, obviously since I’ve had such selectivity, I picked my favorites.

Father and I, we studied Theology for years, the greatest minds, intellects, in Christendom for two thousand years. We had the creme de la creme in Theology. For six years, we studied that. But, now and then, a kid will crystallize a theological concept in a very wonderful way, like a little branch that is really tight with the vine. Anyhow, here they are, and some of them are falling apart. They are so old. So, some of them, I put on index cards. They were collapsing, like Dead Sea Scrolls. A few of them are from the original book that I found in England, “Children’s Letters to God.” Anyhow, here is a small batch....

This little kid was “Jane.” She was about six.

Dear God,
I love you. When I was little, I did not know better and I did not love you. But now I know better and I love you. I love you. Your child....
Love,
Jane

The kid sounds terrified!

And this is “Jean.” It is handwritten. She was only six, not quite six.

Dear God,
Why do you make bad people? My baby brother is very bad. I always have to spank him when Mommy ain’t lookin’. Please make him good. If not, more spanking. I love you.
Love,
Jean

Later, when she came to school as a teenager, “You’re Jean?” ....I backed away from her!

This is “Bert.” This is my kind of letter. This kid was nine. I am sixty-nine. And it is exactly, still, my kind of letter. But he was only a little boy when he said,

Dear God,
OK. I kept my half of the deal. Where’s the bike?

Now, this is Theology, weeks of Theology, about God’s omniscience and His ubiquity and His knowing ahead of time and all that, the Theology of prayer. “Susan” writes, summing up Theology, with a puzzle....

Dear God,
Why do I have to pray when you know anyway what I want? But, I’ll pray if it makes you feel better.

Susan

This was on an index card because it was so fragmented. “Karen” was eight years old. She lived in my first parish. and then she went to the school years later. But when she was eight, living in Millbrook, she wrote:

“Sister says, dear God, that you made all things, that you made even the rivers and the hills and the trees, and us. Did you also make ants and bugs and my brother, Scotty?
She signed it, “Very Truly.”

“Peter” was nine when he wrote:

Dear God,
Please send Dennis Clark to a different summer camp this year.

...Now, I had that letter in mind when, several years later, I had a certain student in class. Now, I was very lucky as a teacher. I loved my job. I had great kids. I really was blessed. But, one semester, I had a kid who sat through the entire first semester Religion class, (I taught English and Religion.) and he sat there like this (arms folded and face expressionless) for a whole semester, from September until Christmas, like this.... hated me, hated religion, hated the world. I found out later that he had a fight with this girl that he liked over the summer vacation when he was a junior. Now, he is a senior and he is miserable. So, over the Christmas vacation, at the end of that first semester, I remembered Peter’s prayer about summer camp. And I prayed every day, “Please, God, this kid’s daddy works at IBM. Have the boss transfer him to another part of the planet.“ When I got back in January, the kid was gone.

“Jonathan”...

Dear Jesus,
I am sorry for my sins. I will be better. Do I get my wish?”

Very human prayer....

We got a lot of religion in our house, Jesus. So, don’t worry about us.
-Teddy

This girl’s name was “Sherry.”

Dear God,
My father can never get a fire started. Could you make a burning bush in our yard? And she had a little cartoon of the father.

Index card, because it was so fragmented, tattered.... “Roger” was nine and a half, and Roger later became a writer. He is a writer on the East Coast.

God:
We heard today about Hell. I don’t buy it! When people are bad you should just forget them - Forget them. - When they die, they disappear, and you can enjoy in Heaven the good people only, and not worry about whether you maybe sent a few good people into the fire by mistake. Please think on this.
Sincerely,
Roger

Now, “Timmy” is in his early thirties, but he was just a little kid in Catholic grammar school in Millbrook, Upstate New York....

If they don’t want you, dear Jesus, to make your own breakfast, they should say so ahead of time.
-Timmy

This is what you should think of when it is announced that there is a second collection, which there always is. “Chris” was just a little kid, eight and a half, I think when he wrote:

Dear God,
I made twenty-five cents, selling lemonade. I will give you some of it on Sunday.

Index card... This really is a tiny piece. I have kept the pieces but I put it on an index card. “Sandy,” seven and a half... Sandy is still angry, but in a good way. He is angry about injustice and stuff. Even a little kid, seven and a half, Sandy wrote:

I think you should go on TV, God, and straighten things out. The faces and voices are sad. There’s lots of shooting and stuff. Tell ‘em off! Be tuff! They say you love us all, but I think most of them would be good and scared if you get tuff. Channel 2 would be good or 4.

“Ward” wrote:

Dear God,
Where does everybody come from? I hope you explain it better than my father did.

Hang on. We are nearing the end.... “Missy”... Now Missy was eight. She was eight when she wrote this thing. And when she came to the high school, as a senior later, she was my secretary. Some of the staff got secretaries, and she became my secretary. She was a business major. She was wonderful.... wonderful! But when she was eight, and I showed her this, she wrote:

Dear Jesus,
I am eight years old. How old are you? I like it down here. Do you like it up there? When it rains down here, I hate it down here.
Sincerely,
Missy

And she spelled “sincerely” correctly!

“Laura,” age seven....

Dear God,
I think you are the nicest person in the world, even though I have never seen you. But I want to see you. But, there is no hurry...
Laura

Now, this is the great mystery of faith. In dark days, you and I just cling, by dogged faith, to Christ, the Cross, the Resurrection. Pain isn’t wasted. We will get through. There is a God. But, “Sam” didn’t know that, at the age of seven, and he presents the central mystery of faith for those of us who cling to belief. Sammy wrote:

My dear Jesus,
I don’t see why things die. My cat, Fluffy, was hit by a car and died. Why don’t you stop those things so they don’t happen ever? Why don’t you not let bad things be done? Do not say, “It is a mystery,” like Mom says. That is no answer. You have the answer. So, tell me.
Sam

Now, “Herbie” was about seven and a half when he wrote this.... Beacon, New York. When he was a senior in high school, years later, he was my head of technical in drama club. And Herbie got the lights going and the furniture and the sets and the props. He was great! But, as a little kid, and even as a seventeen-year-old, Herbie was very succinct. And when he was a child, he wrote:

Dear God,
Count me in.
Your friend,
Herbie
Hello, God!
I went to this wedding and they kissed, right in the church. Is that OK?

And this kid drew a picture of this clench! His name was “Neal.”

“Jimmy” wrote,

Dear God,
Your Bible book has a lot of zip to it! I love science-fiction stories.

It is a long letter, but that is the gist....

“Nancy” (She is now the mother of college kids.) when she was eight, wrote this:

I am always fight with my friend. I confess this on the Satday. The priest asked why I fight with my friend. I don’t know. I think you should do better work here. Things aren’t good when friends hurt friends.
Your friend,
Nancy

Now this was a big, big piece of paper. This little kid “Mark” was eight. Big piece of paper. Crayons. At the top of the paper there was a picture of a smiling face, a kind of typical conventional picture of the anthropomorphization of God, the Father. You know, with the beard, but a big smile... a beard and a halo and a big smile. And an arrow at the bottom of the page leading up to the smiling God. And this kid, Mark, wrote:

Dear God,
I am drawing a picture of you on my top of my letter. Follow the arrow. I don’t see pictures of Jesus smiling. Did Jesus smile? Our priest always looks like his head hurts. He never smiles. but kids love Jesus. So I am sure Jesus smiled. Anyway, dear God, you smile in my letter. Follow the arrow.
Mark

This is my favorite. I’ll read it as it is spelled. For some reason, “Stacey McKeon.” I say here name with honor, Stacey, wherever you are. It’s my favorite!

Dear Lord Jesus,
I thank you for all the things you have done for me. You have gave me a hairt and a brian to love and to learn. My name is Stacey and I am seven years old.

“You have gave me a heart and a brain to love and to learn.” That is all of theology!

“Doreen” was seven when she wrote this. It is not that familiar a name. So, later when she came to Lourdes High School where I was a teacher, when she was a teenager, and she said she was Doreen and from Beacon, New York, I did back away from her because I did remember her letter.

God,
I made a bet with my mother that you would answer this letter. She says you are too busy. I told her Sister says God is never too busy to answer when we ask. I am asking. If you don’t answer, I will lose my bet. I will also tell all the other kids you didn’t!
Doreen

I hope I haven’t read this yet.... “Mark”

Dear God, What’s the use of being good if nobody knows it? “Norman”.... When he got to be a teenager, he was so dying to get a girlfriend for the junior prom... I will never forget it. When he was a kid he wrote, Dear God, I am sorry I was late for Sunday School, but I couldn’t find my underwear. Norman

This is another prayer you and I identify with, some of us anyhow.

OK God,
I got left back. Thanks a lot.
Raymond

And these are the last two. “Maurice” was from England. His parents were from England. Then he moved to Upstate New York.

Dear God,
I am sorry, but if you made the rule for kids to take out garbage, change it!

And the last... is a letter form “Amy” that every Catholic who goes to Mass every Sunday, would completely agree with. Amy’s sentiment:

Dear Jesus,
I like going to Mass, but the priest talks.... too long.